Our Christmas Present

January 13th, 2012  |  News, Private Celebrations  |  1 Comment

Those of you who follow us on Facebook know that we have had something a-brewin for some time now.   And between events we have been planning for an event a little closer to home.  Our Baby Girl Thavrie Elyse Dozier (pronounced Tah-vree) was born on December 2, 2011 and was a healthy 7lbs. 1 oz.!!!  She is truly a blessing and lives up to her name which means “Happy, Healthy and Free”.  We are so in love!

All images were beautifully shot by the talented Jennifer Williams of Jennifer Williams Photography

Brianna + George= Married!!! {Bakersfield Wedding Planner, My Sorted Affair}

November 22nd, 2011  |  Events, Weddings  |  No Comments

brianna & george from madeulookphotography on Vimeo.

We had the absolute pleasure of working with the most adorable couple Bri and George. The passion of this beautiful couple is ooozing in this video! We love them and hope you will too!! Special thanks to Marielle, Allie and Last but not least Christina from Made U Look for this amazing video!!

A Sunday Kinda Love: Amber and ADee’s E-Sesh

October 5th, 2011  |  Engagements  |  No Comments

We can’t stand how beautiful this couple is!! Amber and ADee have their own unique style and genuine love that shows in this beautiful engagement session shot by the ridiculously talented Roger and Lyndzee of Ellsworth Photography/EP Love. We can’t wait to see their wedding pics. View the full post HERE.




Wedding Flower Advise: Why Do Flowers Cost So Much?

September 26th, 2011  |  Planning, Uncategorized  |  No Comments

On the daily many, many brides come to us for wedding flowers and design. We often get the line “We are on a budget…”. Being in this business for many years I know that EVERYONE is on a budget. It would be everyone’s dream to have an endless wedding budget to have all your dreams and desires on that special day. And though, we would love you to have your dream wedding without worrying about cost, but that is not that realistic. So we posted this little ditty to inform you. I hope it finds you well!

This entry edited from Nancy Liu Chin

The answer is pretty straight forward. Cost of flowers reflect
1) Supply v. Demand.
2) Availability.
3) Overhead costs of suppliers.
4) Shipping.
5) Source.
6) Geography.
7) Seasonality or time of the year.

And a few other things.

Avoid flowers that are
1) High Maintenance
2) Out of Season and must be imported from Europe
3) Low in Supply but High in Demand.
4) Rare and hard to find.
5) Tight buds, doesn’t open well.
6) Wilts or bruise quickly.

Let’s give you an example. This morning for around $50(at wholesale not retail), you could take home 5 stems of white Peonies, 10 stems of locally grown Garden roses, and 5 stems of imported South American creamy Hydrangea from one of the best wholesalers.

wholesale flowers

Before I go on, this is not a joke, this is what $50 at wholesale costs(repeat – not retail). If you were to buy this from a floral shop, I would assume that it would be 2 to 3 times as much depending on the area. If the flowers were old and the shop needed to sale them, you might find a better deal but for our example, let’s see this from the floral designer/florist shop standpoint.

I, a boutique floral designer studio, paid $5.00 a stem of peonies, roughly $2.50 for one stem of hydrangea and $1.50 for one small stem of garden roses of which many probably won’t open by this weekend. Note, since these are garden roses and not a hothouse variety, not all of them will open at the same time. Some are already open others remain tight.

Keep in mind, the cost of a designed arrangement also needs to factor in all sorts of other costs including the time to select flowers, clean flowers, delivery flowers, vase, overhead, labor charges. This is why it’s possible that 5 peonies, 10 garden roses, foliage, 5 cream hydrangea could easily be $100 to $200 in today’s market.

If you factor that these are for a wedding, then you also have to add more overhead and design costs. On top of the other factors, wedding flowers should include a designer’s time, creativity of designer, proposal writing skills, and the overall delivery and setup costs. One factor that is rarely mentioned is the cost of the “used” flowers. Many floral designer(not floral shops) buy flowers for a specific event. If the flowers do not open, the floral designer has to overbuy to ensure that they have flowers in “wedding” condition.

As you can see from the picture available, not all 5 stems of those peonies are perfect or large and open enough to be presented in a bouquet. Because we cannot deliver tight buds, we had to overbuy this particular flowers by 3 times. That means that we actually paid for 3 times as many peonies that we needed so that the one bouquet would be in great condition, I call it delivery wedding condition. Thus, experienced wedding professionals will anticipate this and budget accordingly.

Unfortunately, the cost of flowers often fluctuates, and with the effort that goes on to preserve and present these flowers, although we would love to, we cannot offer them at wholesale prices to our brides. After the gas and time to buy them, the time to process them, water, preservatives and other maintenance needed for them, as well as the time, electricity and space to hold them until time to deliver. The flowers for one special day could take up to a week of preparation which gets added to the initial cost of the supply.

We hope this is informative and helps you to understand, what happens when you are paying a professional to help you with your floral design.

My Sorted Affair Featured on WeddingWire Blog!!

July 26th, 2011  |  Press, Uncategorized  |  No Comments

Tien and Joseph’s styled engagement shoot was  featured on WeddingWire!! This shoot was “fairy” themed since our bride’s name means “fairy” in Vietnamese.  Tien and Joseph were a blast to work with and were so in love! Thanks guys for making our job so fun! Click here to see the whole post

Photographs by : Jessica Frey Photography

just us!

June 30th, 2011  |  Uncategorized  |  No Comments


Wedding DISASTERS and how to avoid them

March 21st, 2011  |  Uncategorized  |  No Comments


Here are a few jewels of advice thanks to Perfect Wedding Guide!

Wedding Dilemma: Wedding Pro No Show
The last thing you’ll want to do on the day of your wedding is track down a missing wedding cake or put out an APB for your photographer. Days before your wedding, be sure to give your wedding pros the correct names and addresses of your venues to deliver the goods. Be sure to submit accurate contact information for the vendors to your wedding planner or day-of coordinator, and your wedding coordinators should also have a document with cell phone numbers and ETAs of your wedding professionals to communicate as necessary.

Wedding Dilemma: Temperature Tantrums
Even though the day is all about you, your guest’s comfort level shouldn’t been neglected. When meeting with the manager of your wedding reception venue, discuss climate control measures for your ceremony and reception. Have your planner or a point person know where the thermostats are in case someone needs to adjust the temp in the room. If your wedding venue is outdoors, be prepared to reserve outdoor heat lamps for cooler weather or fans for warmer temps.

Wedding Dilemma: Hairdo Horrors
It’s never a good idea to experiment with a new hairdo or cut right before your wedding. Schedule a trial run with your stylist a month prior to the wedding date to stagger cut and color services. Also, take a camera and any wedding hair accessories with you to the trial appointments to keep record of the looks you’re considering, and to get the best idea of the look that will be recreated on the day of.

Wedding Dilemma: Missing Rings
One of the worst things to realize when you’re at the altar is that your wedding rings have gone missing. Before the ceremony, grooms, be sure to hand over your bands to a reliable wedding party or family member. Traditionally it is the best man’s responsibility to care for the wedding rings, so make sure he keeps the rings in a safe space up until the time to say “I Do.â€

Wedding Dilemma: Faulty Fittings
Always schedule wedding dress fittings in an appropriate time frame. The first fitting usually takes place six weeks before the wedding day, with subsequent fittings closer to the wedding date as needed. Remember to bring in accessories such as shoes and foundation/ undergarments to get an accurate fit. Your final fitting should take place a couple weeks before the wedding, and should include pressing/steaming any wrinkles and a discussion on dress care tips should you (God forbid) accidentally spill something on the gown.

Wedding Dilemma: Tumbling Wedding Cake
While your cake designer or baker might charge an additional fee to deliver your wedding cake, it’s totally worth it. Transporting a multi-tiered wedding cake might not be something you want to leave up to your groom or your mom, so just pay the extra fee to have it delivered by the pros. And while you’re at it, it might be a good idea to place someone in charge of keeping the cake safe before cutting time, away from the dance floor and any entry ways to the reception area.

Wedding Dilemma: Not Hiring a Planner or Day-of Coordinator
It’s always amazing to hear when a bride plans every aspect of her wedding on her own (not for the faint of heart), but there are some things she should leave to the pros. Wedding coordinators are a lifesaver for overwhelmed brides and can help tackle and take care of everything from contract negotiations to helping the MOB find her dress. And if you don’t happen to need a planner for every detail, a day-of coordinator can be used as a point person to touch base with pros and the wedding party, and to ensure that wedding events stay on schedule.

Happy Planning!!

xoxo

My Sorted Affair

My Sorted Affair’s Grand Opening!!

March 15th, 2011  |  Events, From the Shop, News  |  No Comments

We are OPEN!! We are so proud of our new space!  We have been taking time to settle in and are so happy that you guys have supported us along the way!! Here are a few images from our open house along with our roomie Jennifer Williams Photography who took these amazing images!!

xoxo

My Sorted Affair

My Sorted Affair Loves :: New in Store!!

March 15th, 2011  |  From the Shop  |  No Comments

Looking for the perfect gift? Look no further! My Sorted Affair has tons of goodies in stock to please your loved one! We also have nifty wedding accessories to add that personal touch to your special day!

Don’t our ice cream bath bombs look yummy enough to eat?!!?  Just pop them in the bath for a luxurious skin softening experience.

The yumminess doesn’t end there! We also have full size and mini cuppie bath bombs too!Our towel treats are a customer fave! These treats look good enough to eat.. but they are adorable hand towels!

We also just got in a large selection of new and vintage hostess aprons!! The perfect gift for any chic hostess.

our photobooth

accessories

add fun to any

photobooth or

photo session!!

In addition to all these fun items we also have a variety of plants in stock.

airplants and succulent dish gardens are awesome for

green thumbs and

brown thumbs

alike!

Happy Shopping!!

XOXO

My Sorted Affair

First Things to do Between “Yes” and “I do”

March 14th, 2011  |  Planning  |  No Comments

photo courtesy of Valdophye

OK! You said yes!! Yippeeeee!! Before we get all carried away in all the wedding la la there are a few things you’ll need to do between now and “I Do.” To get you ready for the big day, we’ve compiled a list of five important things you should tackle first.

  • Find a Venue/Select a Date: Setting a date is the most important step you can take in planning a wedding. The availability of vendors and venues will of course hinge on the date you choose. So get out your calendar and find a day that works for you.
  • Hire a Photographer: Choosing a photographer is a really personal event in your wedding planning.  A photographer’s “eye” can make the difference between extraordinary memories and a ho-hum wedding album.  Choose wisely, making sure their style in congruent with yours as well as making sure they mesh well with you and your groom!! Photographer’s can’t often double book a date so make sure you get yours etched in stone!
  • Find a Wedding Planner: The need for wedding planners is often overlooked and considered a luxury, but for many brides, yes even you d.i.y-ers, they are so necessary.  Just consider this, with all the planning you have done to make your day perfect, why would you get to the finish line and then walk away?  Planners help you figure out all those tiny logistical things you may have overlooked or forgotten about.  They bring an order and calmness to a day that otherwise may be overwhelming to a bride or family member on such an emotional and important day.  After all there is no price on peace of mind…
  • Think of a theme or feeling you would like your wedding to have: This will help you not only begin to picture your magical day, but will also help you figure out a direction that you would like to go in.  Brides can easily get overwhelmed with ideas and images while planning weddings.  After all the bridal shows and magazines are said and done, what do you really remember?  Taking a few of those glorious magazines and pulling (yes pulling) the pictures out and writing on them what it is you like about that picture will not only help you, but it will help your planner and other vendors visualize your day, and suggest ways to make your day just what you always wanted.
  • Be Realistic: The average wedding in the U.S costs about $30k!!! YES, that much.  There are tons of ways to cut costs but realistically even cutting costs won’t make your wedding free.  Consider what is most important to you and make a priority list.  Whether it is food, guest list, dress, flowers, cake, or photography that is most important to you, a list will help you figure out where it is you are willing to compromise and where you are willing to splurge!

We hope these tips help you get started!  Wedding planning should be fun, and can be when you are organized! Happy Planning!